Paul M. Toce

Paul Marion Toce, Sr. passed peacefully on to his reward on November 27, 2017 at his home in Lafayette from complications of hip surgery. He was 86. Paul was surrounded by his wife of 62 years, the former Patricia Lucille Robicheaux, his three sons, Dr. Paul M Toce Jr., Victor Albert Toce, Andre’ Francis Toce, and his BabyGirl, Patty Lou Toce Marshall. Paul was an extraordinary, self-made man, who lived an extraordinary life, achieving extraordinary success as founder and chief geologist for Toce Oil Co, now Toce Energy. Paul began as a football standout at the old Lafayette High (now the site of Lafayette Middle School on University Ave). He earned a scholarship to play receiver on the UL football team, then known as SLI (South Louisiana Institute). Paul suffered a career-ending knee injury his Freshman season, but always cherished the university for honoring his four-year scholarship, even when he was unable to play. Paul grew up poor, without a father, and would never have achieved a college degree in Geology without the uncommon loyalty bestowed upon him by the University, which he never forgot. After being injured, Paul joined the Air Force ROTC and quickly became the commanding Lieutenant. It was then that he stumbled upon the greatest blessing he would ever receive – winning the hand of “Patty Lou” Robicheaux in marriage. After graduation, Paul fulfilled his commitment to the US Air Force, serving in the European Theatre, with Patty Lou by his side. Paul was Honorably discharged, having earned the rank of First Lieutenant. Once back from Europe, Paul earned his first job in the oilfield at Royal Dutch Shell. After several years, Paul left Shell and founded Toce Oil Co. where his knack for finding oil vaulted him into a lifestyle, about which he could have only dreamed growing up on Park Ave (northside Lafayette, not NYC) with no father and a working mother. Most dear to Paul, other than Patty who always came first, was his family. He travelled the world with his children and dearest companion - from the dove-hunting fields of South America, the double black diamond ski slopes of Aspen and back bowls of Vail, to the Grand Canyon, Yosemite National Park and Disney Resorts in California and Florida, to countless days with the family water skiing and hang gliding at False River, to the Vatican, ancient Roman Ruins China and Pompei - the family enjoyed experiences beyond compare, which will be cherished forever. To this day, those family experiences have joined Paul and Patty’s children at the heart and soul. Paul watched all four of his children graduate from college (and paid for it all), with Paul Jr. becoming a local Doctor, Victor becoming the Geologist who would take over Paul’s oil and gas exploration legacy, Andre’ becoming a successful Trial Attorney (and full-time rascal), and Patty pursuing a career in the hospitality industry, currently on the University of Louisiana Lafayette campus through a newly created position. Paul enjoyed an extraordinarily full life, and definitely won’t be getting any change back, as he got all of his money’s worth, and then some. Paul had 16 grandchildren, and 5 great grandchildren, earning him the venerable and beloved title of “Pop T”. Paul and Patty shared their blessings generously with the community, from founding a perpetual geology scholarship grant at UL, helping to build the St Pius X Catholic Church and the Elementary School, supporting orphaned children in Uganda Africa, to constant donations over the years supporting hundreds of charitable causes for the less fortunate throughout Lafayette and beyond. Seldom did Paul say no to any worthy cause. Paul, Patty and the entire family want to thank all the many nurses and care givers who were so wonderful and caring for him in his last days. We are so appreciative of every kindness, and thankful to all. There truly is a special place in heaven for each one of you! A Memorial Services will be held at Noon on Friday, December 1st at our beloved St. Pius X Catholic Church on Kaliste Saloom. Mass will be preceded by recitation of the rosary at 11:45. After Mass, a Celebration of Life will be held at Paul and Patty’s house for all of their dear friends. Transportation from St. Pius will be provided. In lieu of flowers, donations in Mr. Toce's honor can be made to the St Pius X Building Fund. Delhomme Funeral Home, 1011 Bertrand Drive, Lafayette, LA is in charge of arrangements. Personal condolences may be sent to the Toce family at www.delhommefuneralhome.com.

Paul M. Toce

May 23, 1931 - November 29, 2017